I value our friendship too much to let anything else get in the way. I would love to be romantically (or even just physically) involved with this guy, but our friendship has to come before that. I do have plans to go hang out with him in a couple of days. We’ve talked on the phone and exchanged text messages a few times over the past few days, but still haven’t met face-to-face since this all happened. I just can’t see how talking to him about it could possibly make the situation any better. He’s either telling the truth, or he’s too ashamed/embarrassed to talk about it and hopes I don’t remember anything either. I’m leaning toward believing his “blackout” story considering that he didn’t even bother to get dressed before going upstairs to bed with his sober girlfriend.
Eventually everyone left except for me, him, and his girlfriend. Everything went great at first, and we all were having a good time. Last weekend my straight friend and I decided to invite some people over and have a cookout at his house.